​For those Grieving the Loss of a Loved One 
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Death is a transition, not a disappearance. It is as natural and sacred as birth. We move from one room of the Divine house to another, from the visible to the invisible, but we are never lost. We are never gone.


​"Grief is the price we pay for love." Queen Elizabeth II

In those moments when grief seems to overcome me I am reminded of the love I have felt in my life that has brought me to this place of great sorrow. It is in those moments I recognize that Love will also bring me to a place of healing. It is Divine Love that will surround me at every moment of my day. That will hold me in arms of Love..that will whisper words of comfort. It is from this place I draw strength.

                                   
​Healing Begins with Remembering

It’s okay to cry. It’s okay to feel lost. But please don’t believe for a moment that your loved one is gone forever. They have simply returned home to Spirit. And from that realm of light, they want to see you live, to heal, to laugh again. They want you to know that they are safe, whole, and still with you—just in a different way.

You carry their love in your heart. That love cannot be broken. Not by time, not by distance, and certainly not by death.
Loss and Grief are a Natural and Normal

​Loss and grief are a natural and normal part of life whether it is the loss of someone we love or the loss experienced through change and challenge.  Our reactions to loss can be unexpected, confusing , overwhelming. Each of us copes with loss in our own special way and even though there are elements which are predictable, our reactions to it may be unsettling. Sometimes we need support to help us meet its challenges and maybe get us past the pain and get unstuck. 
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Rev Barry discusses grieving loss in our lives and the nature of change.  He explores the power of grief
​and dealing with the process of working through it.

​What Happens When We Die ? 
We live in a physical world, when we die where do we go? what happens? Rev Barry offers a spiritually uplifting perspective on life after life. He shares his deep knowing that your loved ones are connected to you, whether they are here or on the Spirit side.
​    Death is not the end. It is a return. A coming home.
               
From my experience as a psychic medium and spiritual teacher, I know with deep certainty that when we leave the physical body, we do not cease to exist. We continue—consciously, purposefully, and lovingly. The soul—the eternal part of us—simply steps out of its earthly garment and moves into a more expansive realm of Spirit.

Death is a transition, not a disappearance. It is as natural and sacred as birth. We move from one room of the Divine house to another, from the visible to the invisible, but we are never lost. We are never gone.

Rev Barry shares a bit about overcoming loss and grief and accepting. He talks about our true nature as spirit and the illusion of separation and the value of being connected.

Your Loved Ones Are Still Connected to You !
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If you feel called, you can speak to them—out loud, in your heart, or through prayer or meditation. Trust that they hear you. And when you are still enough to listen, you may begin to sense their responses, subtle but unmistakable.

I often tell people: Grief is not about letting go—it is about learning to hold on differently. Your relationship continues. It evolves. And when you are ready, you may find ways to honour that connection—through rituals, memory, dreams, or even direct communication through Spirit.

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